My friend/boss at work (everyone at work is actually my boss as I am but a happy drone, buzzing around the flowers) and I were talking relationships today. One tangent took us off into the realm of why divorcee's always blame the person who ran off with their partner instead of the actual person who left them.
Really, I mean, if you love someone then should it be so surprising that someone else might love them too? Logically, you should be pissed at the one you chose as they ought to have been worthy of your trust. Of course, when we're that hurt, I guess logic is easily evaded.
Oh, and sort of unrelated, but my mind jumps about...
Someone once said to me something along the lines of "I love you, so I can't be your friend" That doesn't sound like any kind of love at all. In fact, that seems more like "I want what I want and screw you if I don't get it." But perhaps that is more honest than pretending to be someone's buddy whilst imagining something different. So one is actually rather mean and one is dishonest. Hmnnn....
Time to walk the beasty and think nicer thoughts on this gorgeous spring day!
